What you do doesn't make a difference to me one way or another, I'm not here to make moral judgements. That's why I posted about white people, not you. You don't have to justify anything just like I shouldn't have to justify adding my voice to the conversation.

I work with trans and undocumented youth every day.I understand the fear and the concern. I understand the threat and the policy implications. I care a lot. A lot of my work is unpacking things like white privilege and social constructs and to hear about what it's like for undocumented youth fearing they and their parents are about to be separated hearing about how the kids of the Pink Pussy Hat Ladies are sick of this country and presume they belong everywhere.

It's all real and important. It's not mean just because it's uncomfortable.

I'm this insufferable in person too.

motherfucker, i fed my young to the hawk

I understand. You made valid points and I appreciate you adding your voice.

"stressed" is just "desserts" spelled backwards